Hi Friends

 

I am Uma. There comes a time in life when you have to decide what will you do more !!!

Its not that i have achieved everything that i want to do or get in life. In fact, most part of my life have been full of struggle, struggle and more struggle.

However, i have understood something and that is what i want to share with you.

 

We must be focused and motivated . Always Work hard to reach your goal.  Unless success is as important as your breath, you are not determined enough. When you, your heart, conscious and sub-conscious mind, dreams and day- night, every breath and every thought .. everything .. just everything in your existence want it, everything is possible.

These all are very important, true and required. And yes, we will teach you all these. However, along with it, one thing we want you to do is “Live your Life“.

Whole life, we struggle to get things which we are made to think are worthy of to chase. Our society,culture,religion, stories, media provide us with shiny goals. List down 10 things you want to do/achieve in life in order of preference. Now, tick out those which you think are the goals you developed during the process of “growing up” to adjust in the society.

Now, list down your childhood dreams. Are they same? Are you living the life you once wanted to? Friends, choose your goals with great care. Are they really worthy enough? Are they really what exactly you want?  If yes, then go after them with all your might.  ‘Be careful what you wish for, lest it come true.’

 

May be you have got some of those. How much are your at peace and satisfied? Even after achieving many things in life and failing a lot, what is the most cherished moment for you?

 

What is that feeling you always like to remember? That gives you new hope and strength to fight. Whenever you have that feeling, your whole existence is filled with happiness ,  sweetness is filled deep inside your heart and you know it. You are at peace with yourself and the world.

 

What is that ?

Believe me, my dear friend, that is “Love” . 

Whenever and wherever you have got love or given it, that is the time and place you are at peace and “really happy”. Isn’t it? Just think of the time you were with your sweetheart, your kids or close friends. 

Now, people take love in many ways. Love is not only between two adult love birds. Of course, It is there. Love is also there between family members, friends, pets and infact could with every one. Sanskrit saying : “Vasudheva kutumb – kambh” ( Whole world, entire creation is our family).

 

The way food is to stomach, Love is to the heart and Soul.

Live your life full of love. Love and care for people without expecting anything in return. Smile at others and laugh with your friends.

“Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.” —Maya Angelou

An open life with a touch of Midas. Whosoever, comes in contact with you, he/she should be benefited in some way.

 

Believe me, you be happier and healthier.

There are two types of instincts we have. Animal Instinct and Human Instinct. Animal instinct is just 2 things: survival and reproduction. It will make us to do everything that is required for these two goals. Good food, shelter, clothes, medical felicities, opportunities in life and increased possibility of better mate.

Unless this animal instinct is satisfied, no one can start on higher instinct, which is Human Instinct. That why i said earlier, Focus, dedication, determination, hard work is very important and we will teach you that. These are basic building blocks to live a “good life”.

And what is Human Instinct? In whole creation all we want is “love”.

There are many perverted forms of it like jealousy, hatred ( opposite of love) and some extended forms like patriotism, love for mankind, live of God etc. And we all are trying to achieve it in all our activities we are doing. Even our goals are ,actually a stepping stones for love.

So my dear friends , go and give love. And you will get love in return.

 

“Most of us miss out on life’s big prizes. The Pulitzer. The Nobel. Oscars. The World Cup. But we’re
all eligible for life’s smaller prizes… A pat on the back. A kiss behind the ear. A four-pound bass. A
full moon. An empty parking space. A crackling fire. A great meal. A glorious sunset. Hot soup. Cold
beer.” —Unknown

 

I am from Darjeeling, a famous tourist hill town in east of India.

It was developed by Colonial Britishers as a summer retreat area, famous for its big-beautiful tea gardens and spectacular Kanchenjunga, the world’s third highest mountain. I have done Master of Philosophy ( M. Phill)  and was a lecturer in a college for some time before marriage.My husband is an engineering graduate from an Army College.

So, coming to original question: What to do more in life?  I had too many options, some bad ( decoit,theif, smuggler  🙂 ), Some ok , some good.. others better.

I thought lets share joy of life with all. Its much needed in this world now.

Lets share Love and hope. Hope to achieve love. Yeah, along with it some tips and tricks to help us in our daily life, to achieve our goals, to be a better human being.

Here comes before you with all humbleness, me, my husband and Team, with message of success, hope and Love.

 

May you live every day of your life.  -Jonathan Swift

 

Cheers !! 🙂

Uma-Om Chhetry

 

 

 

 

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